The World we live in

Sometimes as people we are the ones who burden ourselves in ways that are not necessary and one of the biggest ways we do is by aiming to be what we are not. We love to be what we are not, trying to be a person that is not us by wearing the mask of another. We do not develop our sense of self but try to live the life of another and this leads us to insecurities and self-doubt. The reason for this is that we want to live the life of another by burying the real us deep inside and each time the real us stares at us, we continue to lock it up by looking for more things and others techniques on how they live.   This leads us to something called overconsumption and begin to hurt ourselves as we always want what we do not have but are never thankful for what we already have. We may be healthy, fit, have the necessities in our lives but we continue to see our lives empty because we are focused on what’s missing, not what’s already there. This leads to overconsumption as w...

As people, we are always concerned with our outward appearence and being successful with high intelligence and wealth. Not many of us concern ourselves with our attitude and the way we behave, we rarely concern ourselves with the way we speak, act and behave to those we know and do not. Thus we have become a people with pretty bodies, great paperwork and resumes and a stable income with bad attitudes. We have no respect for no one and have become individualists who only care about themselves and only help others if it is in our own benefits and interests. We never help others if we are not going to get anything out of it and this is not good because we do not treat people the way we want to be treated. We love to get help, to be treated with respect and honour, so why cant we do the same. When we help others we are doing oueselves a favour, we are softening our hearts and looking at life from others perspectives. We become thankful when we see someone in a worse condition and real...

Trying new thing and having new hobbies is very important. Trying new things allows us to learn new skills and talents that we have never known we had.  We never know what we are good at until we try something new. New hobbies also gives us the confidence to not hold ourselves back but to immediatly find ourselves confortable in new situations. When we learn to ride a bike or swim or play a particular game, we never know we never know whether we are good at it or not. But we oftenly have pre-thought ideas of how bad we are at it or how we are going to be embarrased when we do a mistake. Mistakes are needed to reach perfection, you can't be good at something without failing and practicng over and over again. When you start to learn to walk, you fall over countles amount of times but we keep getting up until we learn to walk. The same goes for writing, our handwriting starts of shaky but through practice we get it right. Trying something new as long as it is a good hobby and s...

As people, we love to surround ourselves with people. It makes us feel wanted and special but is it worth it to surround ourselves with everybody we meet. There is nothing wrong with surrounding ourselves with people but its got to be people worth spending time with. Not everybody is worth our time, some people don’t deserve to be given an extra minute while some people are worth the time. Here are some people who are worth our time and those that are not: 1. Respectable people Respectable people do not necessarily mean people of wealth and status, but it can also be people with great characters and attitudes. Someone who respects those around them and always has a positive onlook to life is respectable and worth the time. They do their best to make the most of life, even if it looks like its not in their favour and they always have something positive to say. Such people always show that there is more to life than whats obvious and have a good character to to it up . 2. People wh...

Placing your your self in high regard is very important. Thinking of yourself in high regard boosts your self-confidence and faith in yourself as an individual. It makes you feel proud of your self and that you have the ability and capacity to keep on moving forward. Our lives is affected by our mental state, if our mental state has doubts of our self-worth and who we are as individuals then we shield ourselves from progression and the motivation to present the real us.  Having high self-regard does not mean that you are arrogant and proud because arrogance and pride are usually used to cloak lack of confidence and hidden weaknesses. Placing yourself in high self-regard means that you do not wait for people to compliment you after completing or achieving something, rather you know that the person that needs to take pride in their achievement and hardwork is you. It means that if someone questions yourself credibility and worth you that it is not them who decide if you are a fa...

As people we love to talk with those around us and have a good chat. We like to engage in exciting conversations and have a good laugh and present our views and opinions. However, at times we let our tongues slip and slide and they utter things that they should not. Our tongues utter things that can destroy a person's self-esteem, confidence or create conflicts between others and this is why it is important for us to guard our tongues. Guarding our tongues is a compulsory act as our tongues, although having the ability to make other's feel good about themselves and can motivate them, it also can cause damages that can never be erased. When we are struck with a painful blow, it hurts and aches but the pain eventually subsides and down the track we will probably forget that we ever got hurt. However, when say things that can hurt an individual we leave them with a permanent scar, a scar no matter how much they try to forget that will remain, even if they have forgiven you. Th...

Giving good advice is one of the best things we can do for the people around us. Giving good advice helps improve other's situations and gives them tips on how to do things in an easier manner. Giving good advice is very helpful but for many of us we feel that we may be interfering in someone else's business or 'dictating' them on what to do. Advice giving is not like that but it is a tool that helps us improve someone else's circumstance. People come to each other seeking advice or a situation is calling on someone to make the call and give advice. This means that we always have to keep in mind that are aim is to improve the situation of another and that we should be able to give them advice, whether they ask for it or not . Sometimes we may question ourselves and think what happens if the person does not take the advice or becomes hostile but we should not let such ideas cloud our judgement. Our job is to give the advice and it is up to the individual if ...